You guys- if someone tells you that they are struggling, don't proceed to tell them about how much more your life sucks and that you don't see why they would want to change their situation. Remember that the grass is not always greener on the other side. You don't know what that person might be doing to make it appear that way. For all you know, they are spray painting it in the middle of the night so people don't ask questions. But if they open up and tell you they are hurting, don't fucking invalidate that by saying you have it worse. All that will do will make it so they no longer tell you the truth about how they are feeling.
Just as things suck for you- there is always someone out there who has it worse. That fact doesn't make your hardship any easier. Don't judge. Don't invalidate.
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